4th of July Cousin Problems! Please Help Me! Need Answers QUICK!~!?

She must be a very misrable person to go around trying to make other people feel so bad the best way to deal with people like her is to not let anything she says bother you she is realy trying to make herself feel better by making you feel bad if you let that happen she wins if you become like her she wins do not let her win and she will have a crappy time