Friday, August 12, 2011

So when I was a little younger and I guess dumb I gave my daughter's father guardianship.?

I did this only because i thought he lived in a better school district and that is where i wanted her to go. On the application though, you can't put for better schools. I put that i was financially unstable. She has been with he dad during the week for a long time. I get her on the weekends, holidays,etc. Nothing through the court, it has just ended this way and everyone has been comfortable with it. Her dad has two other children by a different woman, and he will keep me away from my daughter sometimes because i wont babysit them. He will keep my daughter home to watch the girls while he goes out or is working. It is okay to have her babysit sometime but not 5 nights out of 7 and on the time she is suppose to be with me. But get this he has his own business and can make his own hours,so why cant he schedule times when the children are at school. He also plans outings and trips when it is my time, of course any 13 year old wants to go to Cedar Point instead of spending the weekend at mom's and going to park. It is kind of like bribery in a way. She just started her monthly and lets just say he is not a very hygienic person, so he doesnt really know how to tell her what to do. He recently just started bringing different young girls, no older than 22, and he is almost 35, to the house, what kind of stuff is that. I dont want to take her away but just have shared parenting and more time with me. It seems like i need to set that up through the court since he does what he does

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